Packing a Potty and Cloth Diaper Bag for Elimination Communication

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Packing a Potty and Cloth Diaper Bag for Elimination Communication

I am a thinker, a planner, and a packer. Lately I have been pondering the best elimination communication supplies. I started by contemplating the best cloth diapers to use as backup for EC. Now I am researching the best diaper bag for families practicing elimination communication. If you are new here, elimination communication is a gentle method of allowing babies to use the potty or toilet, instead of relying completely on diapers.

It's hard to find advice regarding diaper bags for elimination communication. There are recommendations for cloth diapering, but not much for those of us who both cloth diaper and practice elimination communication. I hope to fill in the gaps with pointers specific to EC'ing families. This post will cover selecting a diaper bag for elimination communication; using wet/dry bags to pack cloth diapers or a travel potty; and checklists for packing a bag for each phase of EC: newborn, mobile baby, and toddler. If you would like to share what works well for you, please leave a comment!

I have been through the elimination communication journey with my son, who is now three-years-old. Lately, I've been thinking about what I would do differently next time around. I am definitely armed with more information and a better understanding of EC. With my son, I thought I would just give EC a try to see if it was possible. Now that I know elimination communication works, I'm thinking about which tools would be the most practical and helpful.

Choosing a Diaper Bag for Elimination Communication

Even if you will be practicing elimination communication full time with your baby, chances are that you will be using some sort of backup (cloth diapers, training pants, etc). If you choose to let your baby go completely diaper-free without any backup, then you will probably want to bring some changes of clothes along for your baby. Some of you may be planning on EC'ing with the hopes of not needing to carry a diaper bag. If you can manage to carry minimal items, more power to you!

Even though I am a strong proponent of elimination communication, I love cloth diapers and diaper bags!

When I pack a diaper bag for elimination communication, I personally need to bring along everything I will need for myself and my baby for a half day out (we usually get home by nap time). If you typically drive a car to your destination, you could leave a small potty in your car, along with an extra bag of diapers. Since we don't currently own a car, I roll wearing my baby on the front in a soft structured carrier while carrying our essentials in a diaper bag. A typical day during my son's first year would involve me walking about two miles round trip while babywearing. We would walk to the park for a baby group meeting, go to the beach to meet with friends, or walk or take the bus to hula class.

Last time around, I didn't make the best choice when selecting a diaper bag for EC. I had fallen in love with Petunia Pickle Bottom diaper bags and selected the Touring Tote, for its compact size. The Touring Tote can be worn with a cross-body strap, as a messenger style bag. It also comes with stroller clips which are super convenient for hanging the bag on a stroller. (I know this from borrowing my sister-in-law's Touring Tote while babysitting my niece). Since I planned to wear my baby and not use a stroller, the cross-body strap and stroller clips were not the best choice.

I should have chosen a backpack style diaper bag!

It was possible to wear the cross-body strap between me and my baby while wearing my baby in an ErgoBaby carrier, but it wasn't comfortable having all of the weight distributed on one shoulder. I also wish I had chosen a larger bag. While pregnant I carried a tiny purse and thought I could get away with a small diaper bag. But having a few extra inches that you can either leave empty or pack for particular occasions is so worth it!

Considerations When Choosing a Diaper Bag for EC

  • If you will be babywearing often (which is super helpful for EC), a backpack style diaper bag is more comfortable to wear.
  • If you will mostly use a stroller, choose a diaper bag with stroller clips.
  • If you plan to carry a small potty or foldable travel potty, choose a bag that will accommodate the potty.
    • Dimensions of Potette Plus when folded flat: 9.125" L x 8.75" W x 2.75" D
    • Dimensions of OXO 2-in-1 Go Potty when folded flat: 11" L x 10.2" W x 2.8" D
  • Find a balance between a bag that is large enough but not too heavy.
  • The bag should have a convenient loop or handle on the top for hanging it on the door in public restroom stalls.
  • Items that you will need to grab quickly should be easy to access.
  • It's nice to have 2 outside water bottle pockets. This allows you to reach your water bottle while wearing the diaper backpack on your back and your baby on your front in a carrier.
  • Think of the diaper bag as an investment for your baby's first year or two. I don't foresee your little one being in diapers for three years if you do elimination communication.
  • Choose a diaper bag that is not only functional but also sparks joy!

Elimination Communication Diaper Bags

Here are some suggested elimination communication diaper bags that can accommodate cloth diapers or a travel potty. I believe that you can fit either the Potette Plus or the OXO 2-in-1 Go Potty into each of these bags, but I have not personally tried each bag, so no guarantees. You may also be able to find a daypack or a regular backpack that suits your needs.

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Lily Jade Lorie Tote Backpack

Lily Jade Lorie Tote Backpack Camel

Lily Jade Lorie

Dimensions: 20" W (top) and 13" W (bottom) x 12" H x 5" D

Weight: 2 pounds

Material: Premium full grain leather with nylon lining

Ways to wear: On the shoulder, cross-body messenger, or backpack

The new Lorie tote bag is part of the Lily Jade lifestyle collection. It does not come with a removable bag organizer the way Lily Jade diaper bags do. That's okay, since I wouldn't use the organizer anyway. I prefer to pack with wet/dry bags.

Pros: Lily Jade bags are gorgeous! I love that the Lorie looks like a tote bag but can also be worn as a backpack. The dimensions are a good size for carrying a travel potty or cloth diapers. The outside front pocket could be used for carrying a water bottle. This style is not as heavy as some of the other Lily Jade bags, such as the Meggan which weighs 4.4 pounds. The handles can be used for hanging the bag in the bathroom.

Cons: Lily Jade bags are luxury diaper bags, so they come with a higher price tag. The Lorie does not come with a changing pad.

Overall: When I first wrote this blog post I still hadn't found a backpack style diaper bag that appeared functional and also sparked joy. Then I discovered Lily Jade diaper backpacks. The Lily Jade Lorie is the diaper backpack I will be using with my newborn, expected soon.

Petunia Pickle Bottom Sashay Satchel Backpack Diaper Bag

Petunia Pickle Bottom Sashay Satchel

Dimensions: 13.25" W x 15" H x 5.5" D

Weight: 2.8 pounds

Material: The Embossed bags are made of polyester. The Glazed Coated Canvas bags are made from cotton fabric with a thin coating of PVC-free plastic, which makes them easy to wipe clean.

Ways to wear: On the shoulder with padded handles or as a backpack

Pros: Available in a variety of beautiful designer fabrics! The Petunia Pickle Bottom Sashay Satchel is a stylish diaper backpack. The height of the Sashay Satchel should accommodate a medium size wet bag. The outer magazine pocket could hold thin items like a folder or sun hat. Includes two outside water bottle pockets. All materials in Petunia Pickle Bottom bags pass Prop 65 and CPSIA standards, which includes testing for lead and phthalates.

Cons: Petunia Pickle Bottom is not currently offering bags made from organic cotton, like they have in the past. This bag is heavier than I would like. Requires using smaller organizational bags to make things easier to find.

Ju-Ju-Be Be Right Back Backpack Diaper Bag

Ju-Ju-Be Be Right Back Backpack Diaper Bag

Dimensions: 12" W x 16" H x 5" D

Weight: 2 pounds

Material: Polyester coated with Teflon, memory foam changing pad

Ways to wear: Backpack

Pros: I love the convenient pockets on the Ju-Ju-Be Be Right Back Backpack, especially the extra little pocket for wipes at the top back of the bag. I would probably be able to unzip the side changing pad pocket and remove the changing pad without taking the bag off of my back, which would be convenient. The mesh back and padded straps look comfortable. It has two outside insulated water bottle pockets.

Cons: There is a lot to love about the functional design of the Be Right Back Backpack, but I just can't look past the synthetic materials with which it is made: Polyester, Teflon, memory foam, and Agion anitmicrobial lining. When I contacted Ju-Ju-Be customer service, they explained that the Capstone Teflon used to treat their bags is different from the Teflon used on frying pans and does not emit PFOA's. Their bags are also free of BPA and phthalates. However, they did admit that the memory foam changing pad can off-gas VOC's, and suggested washing the changing pad before use.

LeSportsac Baby Utility Backpack

LeSportsac Baby Utility Backpack

Dimensions: 12.5" W x 16" H x 5.75" D

Weight: 1 pound 3 ounces

Material: Nylon

Ways to wear: Backpack or top carry handles

Pros: Lightweight! Has two outside water bottle pockets. The top carry handles would work well for hanging the bag on a hook. LeSportsac bags sometimes come in gorgeous prints, especially in their Hawaii stores.

Cons: The Baby Utility Backpack is unstructured, so it may not stand up on its own. The internal organizational pockets do not look as nice as the pockets in the backpacks mentioned above. Plastic hardware.

Wild Baby Upcycled Denim Cotton Tote

Wild Baby Upcycled Denim Cotton Tote

Dimensions: 14" W (at the bottom) x 14" H x 6.5" D

Weight: 1.1 pounds

Material: Upcycled cotton denim

Ways to wear: On the shoulder or stroller straps

Pros: Lightweight! I finally found an eco-friendly diaper bag! This tote is made in Guatemala from upcycled cotton denim fabric. It has two outside water bottle pockets and an outside wipes case pocket. Zipper closure across the top. Machine washable. Affordable.

Cons: Cannot be worn as a backpack. Only comes in one color.

Wet/Dry Bags for Packing a Potty and Cloth Diaper Bag

The key to successfully packing a diaper bag with cloth diapers or a travel potty is using wet/dry bags. I just love them! For my son, I used a set of Planet Wise wet bags. I had a small wet bag which fit about two cloth prefolds; a wet/dry bag which is about the same size as their medium wet bag; and a large wet bag which I kept at home for holding dirty diapers. Out of all of these, I liked the wet/dry bag the most. We are still using it now, three years later, and it is still in good shape.

Planet Wise Wet Bags Stacked
Planet Wise Wet Bags: Small, Wet/Dry, Large
Planet Wise Wet Dry Bag with Potette Plus
Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag with Folded Potette Plus

These days there are even more wet/dry bags from which to choose. I recommend getting wet/dry bags, which have one compartment for holding dry items, and one waterproof compartment for wet items. They are more versatile than simple wet bags, which only consist of one waterproof compartment. The great thing about wet/dry bags is that you can pack the clean items in the dry pocket, and as they get dirty, you can move them to the wet pocket.

Note: Wet/dry bag measurements mentioned below are given as the measurements before washing. The bags will normally shrink a little when washed.

Wet/Dry Bag Options:

Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag

Dimensions: 12.5" W x 15.5" H

The Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag is perfect for elimination communication! It can serve different purposed during the various phases of your EC journey. During the newborn phase, you can use it to carry cloth diapers. As your baby gets older and there are more catches in the toilet and fewer misses, you can pack a travel potty in the wet compartment. Either the OXO 2-in-1 Go Potty or the Potette Plus will fit in the Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag.

OXO Tot 2-in-1 Go Potty for Travel

Logan and Lenora Waterproof Hobo Bag

Dimensions: 11" W x 14" H x 4" D

Another option that I look forward to trying is the Logan and Lenora Waterproof Hobo Bag It is slightly smaller and has two waterproof pockets. Both the smaller outer pocket and the larger main pocket are waterproof. The Hobo Bag can fit the Potette Plus in the large pocket.

Kalencom Potette Plus

The Hobo Bag might be just barely wide enough to fit the OXO Tot 2-in-1 Go Potty for Travel. If you happen to have both, please let me know in the comments whether the OXO travel potty fits in the Logan and Lenora Hobo Bag.

Wet/Dry Clutch Options

Wet Dry Clutches and Travel Bag

When my son was a baby I used a Planet Wise Small Wet Bag (7.5" W x 10" H), but next time around I would also pack a Logan and Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch or a Planet Wise Wet/Dry Clutch.

Logan + Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch


Logan and Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch

Dimensions: 12" W x 8.5" H

I have a Logan and Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch that I am using to store clean mama cloth and period panties. I really like the thick canvas fabric and cute design. They have switched from using cotton fabric, which the one I own is made from, to polyester canvas. The newer version of the Logan and Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch comes with a wristlet strap and is slightly bigger than the version that I have. My clutch is now 11" W x 7.25" H after washing.

In the smaller dry pocket of my Logan and Lenora Clutch I can fit:

  • 2 Infant Size (7-20 lbs) Bummis Organic Cotton Prefold Diapers; OR
  • 3 Pairs of training pants (depending upon how bulky they are); OR
  • 1 toddler outfit size 2T (tee shirt, shorts, two underwear).

Planet Wise Wet/Dry Clutch


Planet Wise Wet/Dry Clutch

Dimensions: 11" W x 7.5" H

I recently bought a Planet Wise Wet/Dry Clutch for carrying a spare outfit for my toddler when we are on-the-go. In the smaller dry pocket I can fit:

  • 1 Toddler outfit size 2T (tee shirt, shorts, underwear, socks) and 1 wash cloth.

A wet/dry clutch would also be perfect for carrying Flaparaps!

Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag


Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag

Dimensions: 9.5" W x 4.5" H

The Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag is perfect for organizing smaller items in your diaper bag. It works great for carrying a bib, spoon, straw, and washcloth. Keep clean items in the dry pocket, and after meal time move them to the waterproof pocket.

How to Pack an Elimination Communication Diaper Bag

Here are checklists for packing an elimination communication diaper bag for each stage: newborn, mobile baby, and toddler.

Newborn EC Diaper Bag Packing List

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Pack Diaper Bag to EC Newborn Wet Dry Bags
Pack Diaper Bag EC Newborn Blankets
Pack Diaper Bag EC Newborn Mommy Items
Packing a Potty and Cloth Diaper Bag for Elimination Communication
Packed Diaper Tote EC Newborn Back

After all that talk about a backpack style diaper bag being best for elimination communication, why am I using a tote bag for this demonstration??? Because I am still shopping for a backpack that I like! That's the reason I started researching this topic. The tote bag used in these photos is 16" W x 14" H.

Shown in photos:

  • (4) Cloth wipes
  • Wool puddle pad or changing pad
  • (6) Cloth prefold diapers (Infant size, 7-20 lbs) packed in a Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag
  • Change of baby clothes (sleep gown, long socks, leg warmers) packed in a Logan and Lenora Wet/Dry Clutch
  • Swaddle blanket or nursing scarf
  • Burp cloth
  • Beach towel (for the beach or park)
  • Wallet, cell phone, keys
  • Lip balm, tissue pack, nail file
  • Pen and small notebook
  • Snack and a water bottle for Mom

Not shown in photos:

I would bring along sun hats for myself and my baby, but we usually wore those as we left the house. I also wore my baby in a soft structured carrier. Babywearing is so helpful for EC! Whenever my son needed to pee, he squirmed to get out of the carrier.

It can take a while to figure out how many cloth diapers and covers to pack during the newborn stage. It depends how frequently your baby eliminates, your catch rate, and how long you will be out. I remember attending a Family Hui (baby group) meeting when my son was about 7-weeks-old. I sat on the breezy beach talking with the group leader while we waited for the other moms and babies to arrive. My son peed, and I changed his diaper. About a minute later he peed, and I changed his diaper. Then another minute later he peed, and I changed his diaper. I had already gone through three cloth prefolds, and the meeting hadn't even started yet! I soon gained the confidence to potty my baby during the weekly Family Hui meetings.

The reason I like to carry a travel pack of wipes (10 count) is that I don't go through disposable wipes very fast while practicing EC. The more natural brands of baby wipes that I have tried tend to dry out or mold if left in the diaper bag too long. Next time around I might stick with just cloth wipes.

Bringing a swim diaper serves two purposes: it's there for impromptu visits to the beach, and it can also serve as an extra diaper.

It took me months to realize I could leave the Earth Mama Organic Diaper Balm at home. It's not like I was ever applying it while out and about. I personally didn't need to bring breast pads, but you may want to. At this stage, I didn't even bother bringing along a toy, but I'm pretty minimalist when it comes to toys.

Sitting and Crawling Baby EC Diaper Bag Packing List

  • Cloth baby wipes
  • Optional: Travel pack of WaterWipes
  • Optional: Changing pad
  • Flaparaps shells and pads packed in a Wet/Dry Clutch
  • Optional: Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag containing:
    • Waterproof pocket: Potette Plus or OXO Tot 2-in-1 Go Potty for Travel
    • Dry pocket: 1 Flaparaps shell, 2 Flaparaps pads, 2 cloth wipes, and 1 small wet bag
  • Change of baby clothes (tee shirt, long socks, leg warmers) and a swim diaper packed in Wet/Dry Clutch
  • Optional: Baby sweater or jacket
  • Nursing scarf or swaddle blanket
  • Baby sun glasses
  • Snacks and water bottles for Mom and Baby (once Baby is eating solid foods)
  • OXO Tot Roll-Up Bib, OXO Tot Spoon, reusable straw, and a wash cloth packed in a Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag
  • Small bowl or place mat
  • Optional: Small toy
  • Wallet, cell phone, keys
  • Lip balm, tissue pack, nail file, bandages

Sorry, no photos for this stage, since I don't own any Flaparaps yet. I used gDiapers and trifolded cloth prefolds with my son, but they were quite bulky. The infant size prefolds shown above fit in the size medium gDiapers gPants. Flaparaps would be a trimmer option, and their drop-flap design is intended specifically for elimination communication!

At this stage, I liked having all of the necessities for a quick trip to the bathroom packed in a wet/dry bag. That way I could take just the wet/dry bag with me to the bathroom and leave the diaper bag with someone else. I liked using dry cloth wipes to pat, pat dry after pee. I only used wet cloth wipes or disposable wipes if there was a miss or to wipe after poop.

Toddler EC Diaper Bag Packing List

Packing Diaper Bag wtih Potty for Toddler EC
Pack Diaper Bag EC Toddler Wet Dry
Pack Diaper Bag Toddler EC Mommy Items
Packed Potty Tote Toddler EC

Shown in photos:

  • 3 pairs of underwear packed in a Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag
  • Optional: Planet Wise Wet/Dry Bag containing:
    • Waterproof pocket: Potette Plus or OXO Tot 2-in-1 Go Potty for Travel
    • Dry pocket: 2 cloth wipes, 1 change of toddler clothes including underwear or training pants, 1 cloth prefold for cleaning up puddles, and small wet bag
  • Change of toddler clothes (shirt, shorts, underwear or training pants) and swim suit packed in Wet/Dry Clutch
  • Nursing scarf or blanket
  • Toddler sun glasses
  • OXO Tot Roll-Up Bib (instead of the bib shown), OXO Tot Spoon, reusable straw, and a wash cloth packed in a Planet Wise Travel Wet/Dry Bag
  • Small bowl or place mat
  • Wallet, cell phone, keys
  • Lip balm, tissue pack, nail file
  • Snack and water bottle for Mom

Not shown in photos:

  • 3 pairs of training pants (instead of underwear) packed in a Wet/Dry Clutch
    • I was hoping to show this version in the photos, but I couldn't find my son's old training pants.
  • Optional: Travel pack of WaterWipes
  • Optional: Toddler sweater or jacket
  • Snack and water bottle for toddler
  • Bandages
  • Optional: Small toy
  • Optional: Beach towel (there was plenty of room on top of the tote bag to fit the beach towel)

I always like to be prepared, but as my son got older, I realized that I could bring fewer and fewer items with us. There was one incident, shortly after my son switched to underwear, where he had an accident at the playground, and for some reason I didn't have an extra outfit packed for him. I took off his wet shorts and undies; put him into the carrier (thank goodness for the carrier!); and walked across the street to T.J. Maxx. I bought him a new pair of shorts; rinsed him off in the bathroom; and he was ready to go back to playing. So even if you end up out and about without an essential diaper bag item, chances are there is a store nearby where you can buy it!

I hope you now feel prepared to pack a diaper bag for elimination communication away from home. If you are still expecting a baby with whom you plan to practice EC, you may want to Create an Amazon Baby Registry and include a diaper bag, wet/dry bags, and a travel potty.

You may also want to read our lists of the Best Cloth Diapers for EC and recommended Elimination Communication Supplies.

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About Heidi Avelino

Heidi is passionate about spreading awareness of elimination communication and early potty learning. She has always been an environmentalist and strives to live a minimalist and zero-waste lifestyle. Heidi practiced EC with her son, starting at one-month-old, until he reached potty independence. She is now practicing EC from birth with her baby girl.

4 Comments

  1. Tarah on February 18, 2017 at 6:14 pm

    I love this post! I too searched for the perfect back-pack diaper bag. I dont even know why they make non- backpack diaper bags, everything else just doesn’t seem functional. I ended up going with this one: http://amzn.to/2kG8VtL

    It is a Chinese knock off or something, but it was pretty cheap and works great. However, seeing some of the super cute ones in this post is making me think I might need another one…

    • Heidi Avelino on February 22, 2017 at 6:31 pm

      Hi Tarah,
      Thanks for sharing the backpack diaper bag that’s working for you. It’s hard to find a backpack that’s the perfect combination of function and fashion.

  2. Cill on July 6, 2017 at 5:14 pm

    I use the Nena & Co convertible day bag for my baby bag. It has backpack straps as well as tote/shoulder straps. 🙂

    • Heidi Avelino on July 10, 2017 at 12:13 am

      That sounds convenient. I tried to check them out, but it looks like the convertible day bags are sold out at the moment.

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